Every child craves one thing above all—unconditional love from their mother. A warm hug, a word of encouragement, a sense of being equally seen and valued. But when favoritism enters the picture, even unknowingly, it can quietly damage a child’s heart in ways that last a lifetime.
Maybe it’s praising one more in public and scolding the other behind closed doors…
Or even laughing more with one and barely making eye contact with the other.
To a parent, these moments may seem small. But to a child, they can feel like mountains of rejection.
💬 Children don’t forget how they were made to feel—especially by their mother.
Favoritism can create:
- Sibling rivalry and jealousy
- Lack of self-worth in the “less loved” child
- Bitterness that follows into adulthood
It’s okay to connect differently with each child—after all, they’re unique individuals. But love should never be measured in doses. Every child should feel like they are the center of your world, even if just for a moment.
👩👧👦 Dear moms, your words carry power. Your actions plant seeds. And your love, when given equally, can heal, protect, and guide in the most incredible way.
No child should ever grow up wondering, “Why wasn’t I enough?”
So please, love out loud—and love them all the same.